But lately I've been sort of scrooge-ish...and for a number of reasons. (all while still listening to Christmas music, posting about Christmas, and running around in the snow...)
-Jesus wasn't actually born on Christmas. The whole "Jesus is the reason for the season" is rather stupid and quite honestly not true. Christmas began as a pagan holiday and still is.
-"Giving is better than getting" is overrated. People say it to mask their mad desire for gifts. They don't mean it and they don't believe it.
-Christmas is so very over-commercialized. All holidays are, come to think of it, but Christmas especially. I take traditions and holidays rather seriously, because I believe they are important. But one of my greatest pet peeves when it comes to holidays are consumer products that are cheap, fake, poorly made, short-lived, and overly marketed. It downplays the importance of it. It lessens the effort you put into it. It makes it easy, cheap, and heartless.
Love is giving - love is selfless. It's not giving if you didn't give it out of love. It's not giving if you didn't put some part of yourself into it.
On the other side, why do I love Christmas?
-I love traditions. Something that is repeated only on certain occasions tells me it has meaning. Something that is specially set aside and "sacred", if you will.
-I love the seasonal change. Snow, cold, trees, red and green. I love cozy, warm things, decorations...
-Memories...family...friends...time spent together. My primary love language is quality time...which is probably why I hate cheap consumer products. There's not a single ounce of someone's genuine time put into that.
-I like the focus on Christ. Even if He wasn't born on Christmas: it's a different perspective. It's an idea centered around Christ and the celebration of something great. It's a break from normal life to elevate Christ even more.
So what do I think? I hate commercialism, I love Christmas. Giving is a great idea, but so many people do it in a heartless way just to please "Christians" and to mask their greedy hearts.
I hate the typical "so this Christmas, think about...[insert meaningful and unreachable ideal here]" blah blah blah. How many people actually are impacted by the typical "Jesus is the reason so giving is better than getting" speech?
Why do I celebrate Christmas?
Is it because everyone else does it?
Because I genuinely love the celebration?
Because I actually want to celebrate the incarnation of Jesus?
Quite honestly, I'm not sure why I celebrate Christmas. There are obviously legitimate reasons for celebrating it or for not celebrating it.
But. I do know this - that no matter what the holiday, time, or occasion, that Christ should be our focus. Christmas is a time when we can look at the awesome beauty of the fact that the God of the universe became next to nothing in order to save those who had turned their backs against Him. Not that we can't look at this any other time - but I guess that's what celebrations are for, right? Remembrance? To elevate something you prize as important?
So, during this Christmas season, during this celebration and remembrance - I want every move I make to be one that is elevating what I truly hold as the most important - that is, Christ. Not necessarily the giving, not necessarily the family, the traditions, the putting-others-first: because those are things that should flow out of my life as a result of my love for Christ: when Christ is put first.



